Aiman Azlan's Blog

I was born and raised in Malaysia. I speak Malay for the majority of my life; I speak Malay with my family and with my friends. Many of you asked how I acquired my English speaking skills so allow me to share with you my (not-so-secret) secret about how I learned English speaking and how I continue to improve it. The secret composed of two parts: exposure and practice. What do I mean by exposure? Before a baby learns how to speak, the baby has to be exposed to the language. The idea is to familiarize the ears with the language (in this case: English). Keep in mind that when you are exposing yourself to a language, you can’t escape from exposing yourself to the culture that comes with the language. This is true with any language, not just English. Culture is embedded in the language. Our job is to filter out all the bad culture and to take in all the good culture. I got exposed to the English language through English songs, English movies, English TV shows, English cartoons,...

On Thursday, I posted a video on Youtube . I talked about the tradition of giving and receiving Eid greeting cards. Oh, and I wanted to write Eid greeting cards to 50 of you! Tadaa! A special thanks to Fiqri Ramli for designing these cards on short notice.  The offer has ended and I received about 426 sign ups from people from different parts of the world. I randomly picked 50 people, but then, I thought that 50 is too few. So I picked 100!  Puteri Noor Alia bt Megat Mohd Noor (Malaysia) Astrie Fadhilah Abdul Rahim (Malaysia) Ummu Atirah binti Muhammad (Malaysia) Siti Nurizzatee binti Azlee (Malaysia) Ainur Najihah bt Zulkifli (Malaysia) Nur Adibah bt Mohd Zaki (Malaysia) Nur Fadhilla binti Zainudin (Malaysia) Nur Aliah Izzah binti Abdullah (Malaysia) Zur Azureen (Malaysia) Mimie Hamidah (Malaysia) Nur Hanida binti Abdullah Thani (Malaysia) Izzati Hazirah Bohari (Malaysia) Amirah Wahidah Mohd Rusli (Malaysia) A'attiyyah binti Ab Alim (Malay...

Photo by  Horacio Maria Bismillah. Maghrib creeps in as the sun descents into the horizon; it's like Ramadan is waving goodbye while walking away, slowly disappearing from sight. But just because Ramadan is leaving, that doesn't necessarily mean that it's going to totally disappear. The spirit of Ramadan can live on, but that depends on us. We have to keep Ramadan alive in our hearts and in our deeds. A good test to know whether we did well or not in Ramadan is to observe ourselves outside of Ramadan. Have I changed to become a better person? Or am I reverting to my old ways? Will I go all out, to "compensate" for all the "opportunities" that I've missed in Ramadan? Because you know, I can't be bad in Ramadan. I have to watch myself closely in Ramadan. But when Ramadan is over, the party is on right? How many of us are thinking in this manner? That question is for you to answer and for no one to find out. Ramadan is not there for u...

Photo by  greg westfall Bismillah. For quite a long time, I've been under the impression that Istiqamah means that I am staying the same. For example, if I read one page of the Quran everyday, Istiqamah in that sense would mean that I read one page of the Quran everyday for the rest of my life without missing a single day. If I miss a day, that means that I am no longer Istiqamah. Considering that the root of the word Istiqamah is "qaama" which means "to stand up straight", I can see where my understanding comes from. In retrospect, I think I was under the impression that Istiqamah means to stand up without falling down. That is only partly true. What I didn't realize is the nuance behind the meaning of the word Istiqamah. When I go deeper into it, I realized that I only understand half of the equation. I missed one word in that equation, which will make the meaning complete. Just one word, and that word changed my perception of the whole concept ...

Photo by  nimble photography Bismillah. Towards the end of Ramadan, there are at least three types of people: 1) Those who are exclusively happy because Eid is coming. 2) Those who are exclusively sad because Ramadan is leaving. 3) Those who are having mixed feelings. Which one are you? That's for you to answer and for no one to find out. I think there can't be an extreme towards either end of the sad-happy spectrum. Thinking about the Seerah, I know that the Prophet and the Companions were heartbroken when Ramadan was leaving them. Once Ramadan ended, they missed it so much that they already looked forward to the next Ramadan. But at the same time, they realized that Eid is a gift; a parting gift from Ramadan if you will. Hence, the proper attitude when receiving a gift is happiness and gratefulness. So the Prophet and the Companions didn't accept Eid solemnly. Eid is not a time for mourning, it is a time for celebration. A celebration of what? We are ...

Photo by Umar Mita Bismillah. During the last 10 nights of Ramadan, it is understandable that we would be wondering when Laylatul Qadr ( Night of Power ) will come. We look for signs and we hope that we hit the target. But sometimes we might be preoccupied with the signs of Laylatul Qadr that we missed the point. Despite knowing the signs of Laylatul Qadr (as authenticated by our Prophet), we should be working for it on all the last 10 nights and not just on a specific night. Even the Prophet himself went for all the last 10 nights, because even with all the signs, no one knows for certain when Laylatul Qadr will be. Not even our Prophet knows that. The fact that we don't know for certain should make us hopeful, because we still have a chance of getting Laylatul Qadr. So for the nights that are remaining, we shouldn't lose focus and relax as if we already found Laylatul Qadr. Since there is no guarantee, we should continue our effort all the way until the final night o...

Photo by  Universiteitskrant Univers Bismillah. I am grateful to be studying something that I am passionate about. I realized that there are people out there who can't enjoy what I enjoy, for whatever reason. When you learn about something you're passionate about, you show that you care. You show that you are not studying it for the sake of grades. The questions that you ask your teachers are questions based on curiosity in the subject matter and not, "Will this be on the test?" That question is probably the most popular question in my university. Before this, I didn't care for it. But now, I get irritated when I hear it. The worst part is that those students who ask other questions, sometimes questions that are not relevant to the test, but they're good questions, are being shunt. They are known as the "the annoying student who always asks questions." I want to give an award to such a student. I think we should all be like that; thinking outs...